Formation Tool 03
One question each week designed to surface what you are avoiding. The pattern you refuse to name is the pattern that owns you.
This Week's Confrontation
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What decision have you been deferring that your wife is now carrying alone?
Deferral feels like flexibility. It is actually abandonment. Every decision you refuse to make becomes weight someone else must carry. Name the decision. Make it this week. Report what happened.
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Take the question into your week. Do not answer immediately. Let it surface what you have been avoiding. Discomfort is data.
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By mid-week, write your honest answer. Not the answer that makes you look good. The answer that is true. Name specifics.
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Before the week ends, take one action based on what you uncovered. Insight without action is entertainment. Move.
The question you resist most is the question you need most. Return weekly. Let the confrontation do its work. Patterns exposed are patterns that can be broken.
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