A free diagnostic tool to identify where passivity has taken root in your life, your marriage, and your leadership. Five minutes. No cost. Just clarity.
Take the AssessmentThe Stronghold Assessment is a diagnostic tool designed to help men identify patterns of passivity before they become permanent. It surfaces the behaviors, habits, and responses that have quietly eroded your leadership at home, at work, and in your own soul.
Most men do not realize they have drifted until the damage is done. Their wives have adapted. Their children have adjusted. The family has learned to function around them rather than with them. That is not partnership. That is abandonment with proximity.
This assessment forces you to face what you have been avoiding. It takes approximately five minutes and provides immediate results with a clear path forward.
Passivity rarely announces itself. It creeps in through small surrenders, deferred decisions, and avoided conversations. These are the patterns the Stronghold Assessment is designed to reveal:
If three or more of these resonate, the Stronghold Assessment will provide clarity on exactly where you stand and what it is costing you.
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Answer honestly. The only person this deceives is you.
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The Stronghold Assessment is a free diagnostic tool designed to help men identify patterns of passivity in their lives, marriages, and leadership. It takes approximately five minutes and reveals where drift has taken root, providing immediate clarity on your current state.
Signs of a passive husband include avoiding conflict, deferring all decisions to your wife, being physically present but emotionally absent, and waiting for your wife to initiate important conversations. The Stronghold Assessment quantifies these patterns and shows you exactly where you stand.
Yes. Passivity is a trained response, not a permanent personality trait. What was trained can be untrained through awareness, accountability, and consistent practice of active leadership. The first step is accurate diagnosis, which is what this assessment provides.
While many questions reference marriage, the patterns of passivity affect all men regardless of relationship status. Single men will find the assessment valuable for identifying drift in their personal leadership, decision-making, and life direction.
You will receive an immediate score with an honest assessment of where you stand. From there, you can explore the formation tools available through Lions Don't Bow, including the Daily Rule of Engagement, Weekly Confrontation, and deeper diagnostic assessments.